The one thing that you can’t get back is time. Once you mature and realize that life is to short to be miserable and unhappy, letting go becomes a way of life. All you have to do is stop making bullshit excuses to hold on to shit that’s weighing you down. You ever wonder why you see everyone around you getting blessed but not you? It’s often times because your blocking your own blessings by not letting go.
Many of us were not taught to let go. Yet, letting go is liberating. For some reason men tend to be scared to let down women and women just don’t like to be alone. You have to let go of relationships that are not for you, in order, to live a healthier life. Let go of all toxic people (family members included), jobs that hold you back, your own fear and the idea that you should expect anything from anyone other than God.
If you want anything in life go and get it for yourself. Your a mom you have kids to feed. You do not have time to entertain anything that takes your focus off your children unless it’s about a dollar to feed your children. Drama should be nonexistent in your life. We want to break generational strongholds. We want to leave legacies our children’s children can be proud of. Let’s make today the day we decide to stop toxic behavior so we can grow our businesses. Instead of leaving our kids debt, clothes and shoes let’s challenge ourselves to leave them businesses and property.
Be in control of your life
Letting go means you are brave enough to let something or someone walk out of your life. I want you to master letting go when something no longer suits you. Energy is everything. Bad vibes say something. They say that they don’t belong. Instead of holding on tightly to things that don’t belong because you feel obligated, they are family or you’ve invested a lot of time already understand that although it hurts the best thing sometimes is to let go.
You got this!
Acknowledge and accept that you tried your best and move on. I know it’s frustrating when you try really hard to obtain something and you were waiting for that euphoric that would have came if you got it but listen, instead of trying let go. You don’t want to taint your future. Focus happiness, joy, and satisfaction. Things that can actually be attained. When you do so you’ll experience more of that.
We all know tomorrow isn’t promised. One thing that is for certain is at the end of the day you die once, but you go to sleep everyday hoping to live the next day. Each morning you wake up is a gift. Matter of fact, one of the most precious gifts is life. What do you want to do with the days on this earth you have left? Focus on today. Learn from what you can not change and dive in to the things that empower you to be the you that your working on.
I know I don’t want to be one of those people who ended up settling. Who gave everything I had and didn’t get anything reciprocated back. Do more of the things you love, forgive and move on. In moving on you allow yourself time to heal. Heal for yourself, your children and the next generation. You have to chose not to subject yourself to people or things that don’t care about you, don’t respect you, are only one sided, hurt you, and abuse you.
It’s time to clear your baggage
I know letting go of what your familiar with is hard and change is uncomfortable but you better thug it out because on the other side of fear is your peace and joy. And isn’t that something you deserve? Don’t you know you could be living your best life but it requires a breakthrough. It’s about making positive choices and developing positive relationships. You know something or someone is good for you because they feed your soul and you feel good after spending time with them.
So ask yourself can your grow with this person? If you feel like you’ve reached a crossroad and you can’t grow anymore then you have to go on without them. Some people are only in your life for a season. Not everyone is meant to go with you your whole journey.
When your focused on the good, the good gets better. Let go of any and everything that doesn’t help you move forward with your goals. If you have to question anyone’s sincerity, let them go. Loyalty is a action. If you don’t like how a certain someone treats you and makes you feel, let them go. Your happiness should be your number one priority.
If the presence of someone exhausts you more than they excite you, let them go. Not everyone deserves to be let in to your universe. If your job makes you feel unfulfilled, let it go. You are to driven, creative and valuable to not be fulfilling your purpose. If you keep making the same mistakes and wondering why you still stagnant, let go of those old habits. Breaking old habits is the hardest thing to do but you will never change until it’s done.
“The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward.”
Let’s make 2020 the best year ever
I’m working on two things right now the inside of my heart and the inside of my pockets. Ya feel me?? We all have 2 months to end this year and this decade on a good note. Let go or get dragged? You decided. Misery loves company. Refuse to be anyone’s plus one.